Vietnamese-American man acts as
second ‘father’ to 12 orphans in home country
A Vietnamese-American has
financially assisted the adoptive father of 12 orphans in his home country
for years as a way to give back to his native country.
Nguyen Tan Bong and his
adoptive children pose in a photo taken in 2007.Courtesy of Vo Dac Danh
Le
Minh Trien, 53, the owner of a thriving lawn mowing business in the U.S., was
deeply moved when he first learnt of a fairy tale taking place on Cam
(Forbidden) Mountain in the Mekong Delta province of An Giang.
The
protagonists of the tale, Nguyen Tan Bong and his ailing septuagenarian
mother, have provided for and taken care of 11 orphaned and disadvantaged
children, including a preschooler with hearing and speech impairments, for
over a decade now.
Bong,
51 years old, has rejected marriage proposals from women out of admiration
for his good deeds and devotion to single-handedly caring for his children.
Trien
came across an article published in 2008 about Bong and his adoptive mother,
Vo Thi Ba, who live atop the desolate Mo Coi Mount in the Cam Mountain
complex with nine boys and two girls ranging from one to five years old.
Their
home-sweet-home recently welcomed its latest addition, with the total number
of children now at12.
Vietnamese-American philanthropist Le Minh Trien. Photo: Tuoi
Tre
War victim
Back
in the early 1970s, Trien and his family moved from Hue City in the central
province of Thua Thien-Hue to Tra Vinh Province in the Mekong Delta, where
his father was stationed for military service with the erstwhile South
Vietnam Army.
One
day in 1974, a soldier broke the news that his father was killed in battle.
His
mother, pregnant with her sixth child, took Trien, then 10, to the
battlefield to retrieve his father’s body.
The
Viet Minh revolutionary soldiers were very kind and helpful, calling
themselves friends rather than foes.
The
death of Trien’s father plunged his family into financial distress, forcing
the boy to drop out of a school and pursue menial jobs to help his family eke
out a living.
When
Trien turned 15, his mother sent him on a sea border-crossing that landed him
on a treacherous journey to a refugee camp in Malaysia.
The
desperate, forlorn teenager focused on survival in the unforgiving conditions
of the refugee camp, working without pay for a couple who ran a bread bakery
in the camp.
His
hard work and dexterity paid off, and the couple rewarded Trien with the
bakery, worth four taels of gold back then (a tael is now worth approximately
US$1,585, for free when they settled down in a third country.
The
bakery properly fed the youngster and fellow refugees, allowing the young
‘entrepreneur’ the opportunity to add two more shops to his current
patisserie.
Trien
then handed over his shops to another refugee when he was sent to the
Philippines, where he learned English before settling down in the U.S in
1982.
He
stayed with a fellow Vietnamese in a house in San Diego, California, working
as a scrap collector.
One
day, while collecting empty cans outside a house, an American man yelled a
stream of invective at him, ordering him to stay away from his gateway.
“Trien,
you cannot be like this,” he told himself.
The
young man worked his way through high school with various jobs, including
dishwashing, working as a janitor, and washing cars.
He
got married at 25 before opening his own shop selling souvenirs, ornamental
creatures, and cars.
Trien
then met Ted Mountain, an American businessman who later adopted him as his
son out of his admiration for the young man’s sincerity and diligence.
Heeding
his foster father’s advice, Trien launched a lawn mowing company which has
since become a household name amongst San Diego residents.
The
stable job has earned him a good living and the financial stability to return
to Vietnam to see his mother and siblings in 1990 and do charity work in
several localities across his home country.
Vo Thi Ba, Bong's adoptive mother, who is now in her late 70s,
is seen taking care of one of the adoptive children. Courtesy
of Vo Dac Danh.
Second ‘father’
On
a return visit to Vietnam in 2008, Trien made his way to Cam Mountain, where
Bong and his 75-year-old mother were raising the 12 children.
He
gave the family money to buy food and other necessities for the kids, a daily
struggle for Bong, who earns a modest living growing bamboo on small plots
and sells the shoots for a meager living.
Deeply
concerned about the kids’ future, particularly schooling, Trien asked his
adoptive father for help.
His
father told him to write newspaper articles, launch an association and raise
funds from native Vietnamese and the Vietnamese-American community.
Trien’s
efforts were met with initial suspicion of his motive, but his financial
transparency and philanthropy have finally won the trust of the community.
In
2009, his association for helping physically challenged and orphaned
Vietnamese children raised $35,000, and his adoptive dad matched that sum
with an additional $35,000.
The
funding has helped send Bong’s 11 children to school (the youngest is still
too young for school), and relieved much of his financial difficulty in
providing for such a large family.
Though
his adoptive father and biological mother have passed away, Trien still
travels between the U.S. and his home country to help create real-life fairy
tales for needy people in several locales, including Hanoi, the central
provinces of Quang Tri and Thua Thien-Hue, My Tho City in southern Tien Giang
Province, and his hometown, Tra Vinh.
In
April 2017, before coming back to the U.S., Trien took his wife and children
to Cam Mountain to visit Bong’s 12 adoptive children.
The family can now afford a small house at the foot of the mountain so the
children can get to school more easily.
On
their way back from school one day, the kids screamed excitedly at the
unexpected sight of Trien, who they lovingly call “Dad.”
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Thứ Hai, 15 tháng 5, 2017
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