The woman who has moveds by hands for 55 years
Being paralyzed in both legs since the age of three, Ms. Phan
Thi Hai in Bac Ninh Province has relied on her two hands to move about,
to work, and to support herself for 55 years.
She cannot walk but she still works and lives as a normal person.
In
the early morning, Ms. Hai, now 58, dragged a bucket of bran to feed
her pigs and chickens. After that she cooked rice for herself. Finishing
breakfast, she drank some water, wore her old conical hat and then put
her hands into flip-flops and propelled herself along to go into the
field.
With paralyzed legs, the two arms bear the responsibility
of walking and working. The slope she traversed was gentle, but the
woman fought to keep her balance. Finally she crossed the tough road.
Today was Hai’s 10th straight day of pulling weeds in the pumpkin field
of her younger sister. She tried to finish early getting back home to
plait cords for making hammocks.
"I’m paid VND400,000 ($20) for
weaving a hammock. It takes me about half a month to make one. Deducting
the money for purchasing jute, I earn a little profit," Hai says and
smiles.
At
noon, she was still working in the pumpkin field. As she does every
day, she worked through noon. Despite the paralysis of her legs, Hai’s
hard work has allowed her to build a house, have some chickens and raise
up to eight pigs.
Ms. Hai was the fourth child in a family of six
in Dong Mieu village, Hoai Thuong commune, in Thuan Thanh district. At
the age of three, she was paralyzed in both her legs after a bout with a
disease. Since then she has learned to walk with her hands.
Upon
reaching school age, Hai was determined to attend classes. Though the
school was not far from her home, she had to leave very early to get
there on time. In later years she had to cut short her studies, though,
as the secondary school was quite far from her house.
At home, Hai
practiced chopping vegetables, cooking rice, cleaning the house and
doing farm work. Growing up a little more, she insisted that her parents
permit her to go to work in the neighboring village. By the age of 20,
she had some gold as “capital”.
"In the 1980s, I reclaimed a piece
of land on the dike and opened a grocery shop there. I was at the shop
during the day and returned to my parents’ home at night. In 2000, after
my parents died, I moved to the shop, and I’ve been living here since
then," she says.
Despite the protests of her siblings, Hai moved
into the grocery shop, where she lived alone. She gradually turned the
wild land into a property, with a house, an orchard, pigsties and coops,
all by her own labor.
Concerned that the odor from the excrement
of her cattle and poultry would affect her neighbors, Hai borrowed some
money from a bank to build a biogas trench. She had hoped to pay off her
debt on time, but was prevented from doing so by disease outbreaks last
year, which killed three pigs and many of her chickens.
When
she was young, a soldier asked Hai for her hand in marriage. She
refused, fearing that she would become a burden to him. In recent years,
other men have come with offers of marriage. She still declines.
"Previously,
I opened a tea shop and most of my customers were men. But I was afraid
of having a bad reputation so I stopped selling tea. Now I only sell
eggs and crackers to neighbors," she says.
Hai works hard all year
round, finding her joy in keeping busy. There are times, though, when
she does pine for a child. Through her old radio, she learned that the
Bo De Temple in Hanoi had many orphans available for adoption. She went
to the temple twice to apply as an adoptive parent, but was told no. She
has also heard that the SOS Village is looking for adoptive parents for
its orphans. She plans to try there next month.
"I have a lot of
nephews and nieces but they have to take care of their parents. While
I’m still healthy, I still want to adopt a son," she says.
Mr. Ngo
Xuan Thao, 43, Hai’s neighbor, describes Hai as a powerful woman.
Despite her handicap, she still works very hard to support herself.
Mr. Phan Dinh Van, Hai’s nephew, says that Hai has always been independent, never asking for assistance from her relatives.
And
tonight on the Duong River Dike, a fiercely independent 58-year-old
woman without the use of her legs, is probably busy cleaning, cooking
for herself, or weaving a hammock. And dreaming of a son.
A working day of Ms. Hai:
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Thứ Hai, 5 tháng 5, 2014
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