Parents force children
into doomed search for stardom
By Hoai
Many teenagers in
That is the case of a 8th grade student Le Ngoc Huyen
in
Huyen said, "I like maths and studying. I also
don't have talent for dancing. My dancing just goes nowhere though I was
forced to do dance classes for four years. I guess because I danced at school
performances when I was little so my parents think I have talent."
Previously, Huyen was sent to a well-known dancing
centre in Tan Binh District but the teacher told her parents that she was not
good enough. Huyen's father said the teacher could not appreciate her talent
so he continued to send her to another class.
Whenever Huyen shows her boredom, her parents will
scold her, "I spent so much but you’ve achieved nothing."
Fourteen year-old Duc Toan also faces the same
situation. He is studying as a singer at a training centre because he was
told to become famous. Despite support from his family, Toan has never been
able to win in any singing contests. The low results only fuel his parents'
determination for more intensive courses.
Due to the pressure, Toan started to fear singing and
became sensitive to negative comments from teachers. "When I asked to
take a break for a while, my parents got mad and forbid me from giving
up." he said. Every summer holiday has been replaced by a
famous-before-18-year-old project.
Meanwhile the family of high school girl Thuy Nhung
have abandoned plans to turn their daughter into a famous model after reaping
no results. Nhung's mother always brags that since Nhung is tall, she should
succeed in modelling or acting if she cannot become singer.
Song writer Tran Xuan Tien said he has seen many of
such cases. Parents chose this route because they "heard that singers
can easily earn tens of millions of dong a night."
Some others are professional artists and also want
their child to follow them. Some children have to give up after five or even
eight years of training.
"Parents should know best about their children's ability
to give them suitable guidance. Some parents force their children to pursue a
dream which the kids don’t even want and are disappointed when their children
fail. This can have a bad effect on children." Tien said.
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Thứ Bảy, 15 tháng 6, 2013
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