Love trumps witchcraft: Vietnamese man
who cares for mentally ill
Ha Tu Phuoc (left) sits on the ground to
chat with one of the mental patients living with his family in the Central
Highlands
Men
come out of the coffee tree's shade on hearing the sound of a motorbike
engine, walking like zombies and in bare feet, and gaze at the visitor with
vacant faces.
It is the place locals call “the
valley of crazy people.” It is along a slope in the Central Highlands
Province of Gia Lai and around 10 kilometers from the capital Pleiku.
Some 60 people with mental illness
and alcohol addiction live with the family of Ha Tu Phuoc in a wooden house
on his coffee estate, Thoi bao Kinh te Saigon Online reported.
Phuoc, 48, brought home the first
mentally ill persons after spotting them wandering the streets when he was a
truck driver.
Later people began to bring their
relatives after hearing about Phuoc.
The house has a common yard but is
divided into two inside, one with a strong iron door for severely ill people
and the other for the rest.
Pham Van Tai, 24, of the north
central province of Nghe An came here a year ago after he suddenly attacked
his father with a knife twice in a month, cutting his belly open one of the
times.
His father brought him to Phuoc
after getting out of hospital.
Dam from nearby
Dam said: “What a waste; a lot of
people built that house. I don’t know why I burned it.”
Nguyen Van Vinh, 27, from the
southern
“My mother left and I lived with my
father," he said.
"He worked at construction
sites, was very poor. I suffered from headaches and dropped out of ninth
grade.”
He was sad and wandered around, and
his father thought he had mental illness and sent him to an asylum for two
years.
He worked at a karaoke parlor after
being discharged, but got the headaches again because of having to work late,
and his father sent him to Phuoc this time.
As the least ill person, Vinh has
the job of delivering food and cleaning up some of the others.
Phuoc said he himself had had a
difficult life like most of his patients.
He dropped out of school early and
learned how to drive trucks at 18.
“As a long-haul driver, I live here
and there, sleep on the street, and so have a soft spot for those wandering
around.”
He said it was difficult in the
beginning since his income was already small for his family, which included
two children and an aged mother, and many of the patients were
uncontrollable.
He had to chain them to trees in
front of the house when he went for work.
He picked up any mattress or
blankets people threw on the street for them, and his wife made some from
straw.
They were also short of food, but
decided to manage themselves and not seek anyone’s help.
His wife now cooks 10 kilograms of
rice a day, some fish or meat, and vegetables, and the family eats together
with their 60 patients.
The family uses its own money and
occasionally gets help from a business or charity.
Phuoc is known around the area since
many of the ill people living with him have recovered despite showing no
signs of improvement for years while in mental hospital.
He said his trick is to trust and
respect them.
He has some of them working with
him, loading cargo on the truck or plucking coffee seeds in the estate.
“For each seed they manage to put in
the basket, they would drop one, but letting them work cures them faster,”
Phuoc, who attended a short course in Da Nang in taking care of mentally ill
people, said .
When he chained them to the trees,
he had to promise that he would come back at 5 p.m. to release them so they
could go around, have a coffee or a cigarette.
“So exactly at that moment, no
matter what I was doing, I had to be home, as promised. Otherwise I had to
apologize to them. That’s why they now trust me and listen to me.”
People have alleged he uses
witchcraft, but Phuoc said no magic is stronger than love.
“And you will see they are not
complicated like sane people. They are lovely and carefree.”
Phuoc also helped cure a businessman
who became mentally ill after losing money.
“I took him to the cemetery in the
evening, and we sat on a tomb and drank alcohol in silence.
"And he asked to come after
just a little while.”
Putting someone among the dead can
make them realize that it means little to win or lose since everyone ends up
the same, he philosophized.
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Thứ Năm, 20 tháng 3, 2014
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